我们都知道，眼睛的眼神交流不管是在演讲中还是面试都扮演着很重要的角色。目光或仰视，或俯视，或前视，或环视，还是眼神，或敏锐，或温柔，或平静，或激动，都会让你的面试产生不同的效果。合理用“眼”，对我们的面试起着举足轻重的作用。今天就让我们看看眼神在面试中的艺术吧!

John entered the room with a smile, catching everyone’s eyes。

当John微笑着走进会议室时，所有的人都注视着他。

He cast an eye over the room, to find that there were about ten people and sitting at the head of a long conference table was the boss of the company, the decision maker。

他环视了一周，发现会议室里坐着10个人，坐在长会议桌首席的是该公司的老板，她是决策者。

John began his presentation as soon as he got to the platform, then kept his eyes peeled for the boss. After all, she was the one he had to convince, right?

John走上讲台便开始了他的演讲，眼睛一直关注着老板。毕竟，她是他必须要说服的人，对吧?

As he proceeded, he noticed that the boss was all eyes. She was watching him and occasionally nodded her head at him. He thought to himself, “Hot dog! The boss is on my side。”

在演讲的过程中，他注意到老板的注意力很集中她注视着他，并时不时的点一下头。他暗暗想道：“噢，老板同意我的看法。”

As John continued his presentation, he said something to bother the man sitting mid-table, a few seats down to the left of the boss. The guy was in clear view of the boss at all times. The man reached but did not say anything. John didn’t keep an eye open for his reaction。

John继续着，他说的一些东西似乎冒犯了坐在桌子中间左边与老板相隔几个座位的一个人。那个人总在老板的视野范围之内。虽有反应但却没说什么，而John并没有在意他的反应。

John was so mesmerized by the fact that the boss agreed with him that he could take his eyes off her。

John相当着迷于老板对他的赞同而久久不能把视线从她身上移走。

John finished the presentation and waited for an answer. In a split second the boss ran her eye over to the friend at mid-table. He looked back at her and gave her a single, slight shake of the head。

John完成了他的个人展示，只等老板的回应。老板侧眼看了几秒钟坐在桌子中间的那个人，他回望了老板一眼，只是轻轻摇了摇头。

Here’s what happened:

事情是这样的：

He blew it! He missed the opportunity!

他搞砸了!他错过了机会!

How could this have happened? Everything seemed to be going fine! What went wrong?

这怎么会发生的?一切似乎都很顺利!出了什么问题吗?

Here’s what went wrong:

这里是什么地方出了错：

He wasn’t catching what was going on in the room so he missed the nonverbal dialogue, especially eye contact。

他没赶上房间里发生的一切，所以他错过了非语言对话，特别是眼睛接触。